By Leo Babauta - Zen habits
While most people want to find a way to eat healthier, they are up against forces stronger than they understand.
Sure, we’d like to eat healthier — but then why do we keep failing? Why are most of us getting heavier over time, despite our best efforts?
To figure out a better method, we first have to look at the powerful forces we’re up against. Then firm our resolve, and try one or both of the powerful methods that I describe below.
The Forces We’re Up AgainstLet’s say you’d like to eat a healthier diet … think about what you’re up against:
I’m sure at least a couple of these sound familiar to most of you. Maybe too familiar — you might have been struggling with these for years.
The forces we’re up against are powerful:
Most of us can’t beat all of these really strong forces all the time. And so we win a few battles but lose the war over the long run.
What can we do against these powerful forces? Are they unstoppable?
No, we can overcome them. It will just take more focused effort than we usually believe when we say, “I’m going to start eating healthier, tomorrow!”
There are two powerful methods that can help us overcome these forces.
Powerful Method #1: Change Your Environment
Most of the forces above can be overcome with a complete change of our environment. Now, I understand that many people aren’t in complete control of their environment (teenagers, for example, or people living in a family) … but we can still make some changes that will help.
The more of these kinds of changes we can make, the better we’ll do against the forces above. See if you can make more changes than you normally would consider — sometimes when there’s a will, there’s a way to make it happen.
Imagine this: you go through your day with only healthy options to choose from, and you have healthy meals already prepared (you made them on Sunday). You wake up, grab a healthy breakfast, take your healthy lunch to work, avoid the unhealthy places your coworkers eat and instead read a book and eat your delicious lunch. You have healthy snacks packed for the afternoon when your energy starts to dip, and when you get home you have a healthy dinner to heat up and enjoy. At night, you have fruits you can eat if you get hungry.
With your environment changed, you will default to healthy most of the time. Then when you don’t have a choice, you can just do your best, and not worry too much about it.
Some changes to consider making to your environment:
These are just some ideas. You might come up with others, but these are some examples of changing your environment to support a healthy change. It’s more important than we often realize.
Powerful Method #2: Get Some Support & Accountability
The next most powerful thing you can do to make a change is to make it social — get friends, family and/or co-workers to give you support, join a challenge with you, or hold you accountable for the changes you’d like to make.
This is true for any habit, but it’s especially true for eating habits. That’s because our friends, family and co-workers are often the biggest influence on us when it comes to eating. If they are trying to make us eat dessert all the time, we will have a hard time resisting that for very long. But if they’re eating healthy meals and snacks with us, or at least encouraging us to do so, we will probably do a lot better.
Some suggestions here:
I highly suggest you join us in the Healthy Eating Challenge in Sea Change — I’d love to have you.
Two Other Things We Can Work On
While those are the two most powerful methods of change, there are a couple things that are also pretty important, that I should mention:
These might sound like a lot of changes to make, and they are. But you don’t have to do them all at once. Make it a project to do some of these changes each week, slowly practicing the new coping mechanisms, slowly changing your environment, slowly getting more support and accountability.
This is doable. You are worth it.